ThE NuRtURiNg CrEaTiViTy In ChILdReN

-NURTURING CREATIVITY IN CHILDREN-
1. Neatness is over-rated. Living by too many detailed rules with a focus on neatness don’t let kids think outside the box which eventually causes them to lose their creativity. “Take Chances! Get Messy! 

Make Mistakes!”
2. Give your child permission to be different. Inventive, original kids, a little wacky, perhaps, or just plain odd. Make it okay for your child to be out of step with the norms of their peer group, to be unique, to see the world through their own glasses.
3. Let toddlers experiment with manageable messes that they help clean up. Examples: water and soap on the kitchen floor, watercolours or chalk on the side walk... etc.
4. Establish a place for art supplies early on that is both easily accessible and neat.
5. Help your budding artist stay centered. The stereotype of artists being mentally imbalanced pervades our culture.
6. Don’t be afraid of boredom. Parents often respond to kids’ boredom by providing structured activities or technological entertainment. But unstructured time challenges kids to engage with themselves and the world, to imagine and invent and create. Kids need practice with unstructured time, or they will never learn to manage it.
7. It helps enormously to prevent kids from depending on TV or computer to entertain them. Kids who regularly use the TV or computer are more likely to feel bored than other kids. Find other activities about which they are passionate.
8. Teach your children to love what they do because that way they’ll do it the best job possible.

Moral of the story just let ure child play n mess up ure house#lepas tu kita kemas la yer mak mak :-) after i read this i feel so realise xnak marah marah dah lepas ni kalau areef nk explore walaupon ammi kena kutip simpan more then 10times ure toys yes more then 10X saya tekankan disini saya bukan main main huuuhuuu heeee

sumber~#copypastefromThEaRtOfMotHeRiNg#


 yesss ammi give me the permission to explore lets eat on the table....

ThE LitTLe ArEeF CrEaTiViTy

hey mummy's SaLam Maal HijraH to all Muslim..apa korang buat cuti2 ni mesti ramai yg ambil cuti bersambung till next week kan kan..elehhh mcm la aku xtahu semua seronok bergumbira bersama anak2 korang pergi bercuti ditambah dgn cuti sekolah lagi kan kan hehe..anyhow peeps enjoy ure holiday k..
 mcm aku kat penang ni dah memang selalu holiday pun acehhhh hehe....

meh nk story mory dekat korang ni disebabkan aku ni lepak umah layan my cutie pie energizer bunny ni haa ni la dia punya creativity layanzzzzz.....


dulu dulu saya suka buat aksi ini it was last 2mnth...

 sekarang tidak lagi sebab ammi saya marah saya buat mcm ni dia nnt kata "danger''danger'

yerr saya suka duduk dalam kotak sampai semua kotak hancur hoohooo

 ini aktiviti skodeng atuk saya a.k.a TokBa saya dah balik masjid ker belum yg helmet
 bertaburan tu saya la punya kerja...;-)

 kadang kadang selain mengemas umah saya suka tolong ammi masak didapur
 lihat lahh bendi bendi itu sya tolong siangkan...:-)


 ini saya tengah tolong ammi kemaskan umah byak sungguh muffin bertaburan ahaaa

 ehhhh sedap la pula muffin ni layanzzzz makan dulu nnt ammi tolong kemas
ammi kan rajinnnnn #ammitepukdahisambilmatajulingkeatas#

 kadang2 saya suka mandi dalam baldi syokk tauu tapi ammi selalu pesan dia takut
saya xleh keluar dari baldi tu heeeee

 Amacam cute tak saya hehehe

 owhhh tidak lupa juga saya suka pakai night cream ammi saya...hehe tapi masih belum pro
sapu sampai rata itu yg masuk telinga mata semua hehe unty2 jgn lupa pakai night cream sebelum tido tau..:-)

 owhhhh ini hobby saya yg palinggggggggg saya suka,saya suka bg ammi kemas umahhhh....
#amminaklarijauhjauhtaklaratdahnakkutipsimpan#

 mula mula kita susun kerusi jadi mcm train pastu board all the passenger

 Tuan tuan dan puan puan kita akan berlepas sebentar lagi sila pastikan anda memakai
tali pingang keledar,kerusi ditegakkan mohh la kita berlepas tuttttttt tuttttttt....

#ok untie untie sekalian sampai ketemu lagi #

I LoVe DuBaiiiiiii PaRt 2

hello mummies im back meh kita story mory bout my Dubai trip...masa dulu dulu company aku letak we all semua stay dekat satu hotel apartment ni so 1st day sampai Dubai jer aku akan pegi beli brnng2 dapur untuk masak ewahhhh masak la sangat hehe kdng2 tu kwn2 sorng bwa beras,sorang bawa cili padi,sardin kena ada korang tu kan lauk kecemasan xkan la hari2 nk ngadap briyani dgn kebab kan heee xlupa juga ikan bilis hehe..... tekak melayu sangat kan...so we all akan main masak2 la mesti ada port salah sorng punya bilik akan jadi port lepak2 n masak almaklum la we all ni semua kelawar bila dh petang or malam bru keluar dari bilik kalau nk keluar siang tu mesti pegi Mall jer la or tempat2 yg ber aircond sebab Dubai kan kalau panas ya ampunnnnnn kalau pakai sun glasses bila buka haaa hambik kau muka jadi acuan sun glasses tu berbekas sunburn huhuhhh....tapi ada juga time winter diorg mostly during december till feb

hambik kau balang ikan sebesar alam dalam Mall dekat
Dubai....

 is Winter....this is our new hotel tap hotel ni xder la tempat masak mcm hotel dulu kang masak xpasal
smoke detector  activated  ngeee :D

ni lagi balang ikan hehe..

Burj Khalifa 1 of the tallest building in the world
ni malam so pic dia kurang elok skit

Hard Rock Cafe uallsss nk beli baju untuk areef ;-)

zasss zasss swipe credit card dapat la satu bag tuhh haa hehe

ammi areef and daddy

tadaa areef 1st Hard Rock Romper hehe

Okeh korang meh kita singgah Damam jap Damam ni part of Saudi la  during this trip we all ada buat shuttle to Damam  so we fly from Dubai to Damam then rest dalam 7hour the fly back to Dubai same day la...Al kisah kalau masuk Damam ni semua wanita xkira muslim or non muslim harus la menutup aurat bestnya dalam set aku ni out of 11cabin crew hanya ada 3 ladies termasuk aku...aku rasa la company aku ni lupa nk update we all yg sekurangnya tutup la kepala dengan scarf kan hehe we all selamber badak jer enter country ni xmenutup aurat al kisahnya semua pak Arab tengok we all mcm nk makan muahaha bukan nk makan sebab we all lawa acehhhh heheh tapi sebab we all tak menutup aurat hohooo...buat malu negara Malaysia jer cisss

ni la we all baru sampai Damam hehe selamber jer xpakai arbayah ..mak xtahu nok semua
1st timer...hehe ampunnn...

ini  view bilik aku besar kan korang ni baru living hall nk lepak hnya 7hour pon dapat bilik besar bagai xsempat pon aku duduk sofa tu cari katil jer dulu..

this is my room bilik aku sorang okeh xder share share semua selalunya mmg we all akan

dapat bilik sseorang satu senang la sikit ada privacy mcm aku ni kan selalu nk mengepam susu so agak senang la kan tapi kdg scary la juga dapat bilik besar2 tap duduk sorang

ini view from my room xder apa sgt pon Damam ni padang pasir jer ualls journey dari airport nk pegi hotel we all pon takes almost 1hour dan sepanjang perjalanan hanya nmpk padang pasir dan unta yg kurus berwarna hitam aku pun pelik naper hitam bukn koko heheh xkisah la kan..

###okey korang sampai sini jer cerita aku tengok la kang aku rajin aku buat Part 3 tapi xjanji la kena godek2 pic tu pula tang mana p letak pon xingt hehe##

I LoVe DuBaiiiiii....part 1

on the way to Dubai

Hello Korang buat apa weekend ni? Aku lepak umah jer xder pon plan nk lepak mana2 mayb malam kot bru keluar dinner :-)

 Any how meh nk share sikit dengan korang pengalaman aku diawan biru ni hehe...actually kan korang dalam banyak2 flight aku buat aku paling suka Dubai heheh cer korang teka sebab apa aku suka Dubai heheh lagi mau tnya aku ni.... haruslahhhh shoppinggggg ngeeee :D kalau aku buat flight ni jer mesti nnt melayang duit aku lebih dari allowance flight tu sendri heheh mana taknya korang kat sana heaven gilosssss shopping kawin2 nk raya la wedding la mmg sgt best + i love their food cuma makanan diorg ni agak mahal la kalau pegi food court diorg jer satu set makanan dh cost almost 30-40dirham itu kalau korang nk makan dekat Mall la tapi xkan hari2 nk makan Mall mau kopak aku sebab trip Dubai ni selalu lama kitaorg buat dlm seminggu mcm tu sebab in between trip we all buat shuttle flight...contoh Kul/Dubai then nite stop or off dalam 1 or 2day the we fly to Dubai/Beirut/dubai or Dubai/Damam/Dubai or Dubai/Istanbul or Dubai/Karachi/kul.....sometime we all nite stop Istanbul or Beirut pastu we all return to Dubai mcm tu la. Long trip kan..korang leh byangkn tak aku usung susu aku (ebm) aku tu dulu mcm mana heeeee

  Tapi selalunya kita org cabin crew ni akan ada port makan kita orang sendri nnt aku paste kan korang port makan crew MAS selalu lepak k....

 Tapiiii kan korang sebelum we all boleh cecah kaki kat Dubai ni kita org kena deal dengan pak Arab pak Arab yg agak kekwat ni semua ohhhh ya untuk korang punya info flight Dubai ni mmg sgt sgt jarang la nak lite load selalunya full load all the way pada First Class sampai la ke Ey Class...selalunya pak Arab ni semua travel dengan family yg ank diorg ni kdng tu ramai tap masalah diorg ni kalau laki bini asyik nk berkepit sampai anak pon diorg abaikan tau dia orang ingat aku ni Maid kot...pastu kalau makan tray tu xyah cerita bersepah gilossss okeh xcukup ank kaki sepah parents pon kaki sepah ohhh sgt menguji kesabaran ku...kadang tu budak budak Arab ni xpaham bahasa suka lari keliling cabin buat mcm umah sendri huwaaa bab ni paling mak pantang bukannya apa bahaya tau korang dalam flight ni anythg boleh jadi tau kena air turbulence ker tercampak budak tu haa sapa nk jawabbb makkkk juga kannnnn yg parents diorg asyik nk bercinta ishhh saborrr jer la...tapi itu jer la part yg xbestnya lain sgt2 best hehe

cantik tak kain ni yess aku beli kain ni xsila aku dia buka harga rm600 i get around  rm400
tapi harammm sampai la cek xbuat pon baju lagi dok cantik dalam plastik ja :P

p/s~ hubby aku pon sgt2 suka pegi Dubai sebab kita orang punya Honeymoon pon dekat Dubai hehe

ni salah satu supervisor aku tengah pening nk pilih kain gak  wth the owner

haaa korang kain ni pon aku beli untk my best friends punya  pertunangan

tadaaaa cantik kan my bestie dengan baju ni..actually dia tu yg lawa pakai apa pon segak la kan kan hehe

berhenti jap lepak makan sambil tu layan pilih Miss Rose ekeke

ni la tempat lepak we all kedai ni kecik jer tap makanan dia sgt sedap owh ya kedai ni mmg ramai cabin crew jer pon,,hehe
sampai owner kedai pandai cakap melayu la siap diorg sediakn cili padi lagi untuk org msia yg suka pedas..

#korang kita jumpa next post I Love Dubai Part 2 ok areef dah bangun ni daaa# 

MaRi Kita aJaR aNaK MeMbAcA

The single best way to increase your child’s IQ is to read to them and instil a love of reading. Does your child read every evening, not because it’s assigned, but just for fun? Some kids do, and those are the kids who do better academically, at every step of the way. How can you make your children fall in love with reading?
1. Read to your child from the earliest age. - Not just at bedtime. Buy board books and cloth books as some of your child's first toys.
2. Begin visiting the library regularly by the time your child is two and he/she may well prefer reading to any other activity.
3. Read to your child as often as possible. 
4. Don't push your child to learn to read. They will read naturally once they develop the preliminary skills. Your goal is not to correct, but to encourage a love of books, both pictures and stories.

5. Don't stop reading to them once he learns to read. -Continuing to read to them will keep them interested as their skills develop.
6. Make a “daily reading time.”
7.Help them tackle the next level by choosing slightly harder books.
8. Read yourself. Be a role model.
9. Limit technology. There is no way a book can compete with TV or computer in a child’s eyes.
May Allah make your journey’s easy and reward you Mothers! :)

p/s #copypastefrom#The Art And Mothering Forum#

~areef suka membaca tapi dia sangat suka membaca bila dh tengah malam bila semua orang tengah syok syok tengok tv haa dia akan ambil selambak buku2 dia from his book shelf nnt kasi aku or his daddy baca kan untuk dia~

happy face ;-)

kan aku kata dia suka baca buku time malam2 tengok tu best punya dok yawning
hehehehe

KeSiAn AnaK AmMi...

hello mummies nak cerita sikit ni pasal my little boy ni actually last weekand his having a high fiver so demam dia ada la dlm 2hari mcm tu after demam his having a bad cough n running nose none stop okeh dh pegi doc n doc dh kasi ubat antibiotik,ubat demam,ubat batuk and ubat selsema yess yesss i know if infant we should't give them any flu or cough medicine tap dh teruk sgt mmg terpaksa bg best part ubt semua habis n alhammdulilah dia sihat dari demam tap yg merisaukan aku sekarang dia masih cough n flu none stop masuk ni dh almost a week aku siap ambil vitm C shaklee n makan supaya he can get the vitm from my milk but still doesn't work pity my boy ;( xcukup flu n cough dia dh xder appetite nk makan langsung pernah dalam sehari he only direct feeding n makan seketul nugget ayam that's it ok ammi sedihhhhhhh sgt2 tgk ank ammi xnak makan mcm ni dh masak bubur pon xnk since he loves mac'd n K.F.C i try to buy nugget or any mashed potato pon xjalan gak tap bila tengah drive nmpk mac'd haaa kemain nnt jerit MaMaMmmmmmmm...MaMammmm tap bila beli hampeh diluahnya semua....ammi dah buntu dah ni xtahu nk bg areef makan apa Daddy sampai marah ammi kata ammi xkasi areef makan sedihh tau sob sob...daddy tu keja mana la dia tau ammi hari2 perang kejar areef satu umah nk kasi makan but still xjalan juga..nasib baik la dia nk nenen (BF) dah kurus sikit my boy ni ualllssss....

p.s ~ areef ni sebenarnya xleh orang tegur dia ni tembam ker berisi ker gemuk kerrrrr haaa mmg dia akan demam terus xpon nnt xlalu makan grrrrrrr aku marah betul bila org suka tegur kata budak2 gemuk ni lain kali tengok la dulu baka budak tu kan haaa areef ni jenis big size sebab my hubby side mmg semua jenis agam n tinggi2 so walapon dia baru 1yrs 8mnt size dia mcm budak 2yrs+ n anak aku ni bukan la kaki makan sgt pon cuma dia kuat menyusu jer....

##korang tolong la bg any suggestion nk bg dia lalu makan balik n cepat sembuh beside give any doc medicine ##

kesian muka letih tap nk ikut ammi n daddy p jalan juga ;-)

I FeeL BleEs.....

hei mummies yuppp i feel blessing syukur alhamdulliah i hope i made a right decision to stay at home  for the time being or maybe forever ngehhh ngeeh...actually mula mula agak rasa kekok dengan all house chore dengan diri ni dh biasa kerja n have ure own income..but is ok i know Allah dah atur cantik semua benda dalam hidup kita kan mummies semua? ;-)
 Seronok rupanya dok umah ni hehe paling best i dont have roster in my life like before yessssssss my life is no more depends on roster nk pegi mana2 anytime i can go xperlu nk bgun pukul 3am makeup tunggu driver dtg ambik pegi keje sebelum masuk subuh,no more during takbir Raya aku kena tarik trolley bag pegi keja,no more work during weeknd muhahahahah paling nikmat adalah setiap pagi bangun i can see my cute little energizer bunny smilling beside me awhhhh Allah Alhamdulliah ;-) why i said he smile at at me every time i open my eyes because setiap pagi little Areef yg gerak ammi muhahahah kantoiiii anak yg gerak mak bangun..n setiap kali aku tengok muka dia waktu dia tido aku rasa nikmat sgt n im happy really happy..at last son im with u I love u....

I love u infinity son.....